December 22, 2025 You don’t miss him at noon.

You miss him at 11:47 PM — when the city goes quiet, the lights go soft, and your standards start
negotiating like they’ve had a long day.

11:47 PM isn’t a time.
It’s a loophole.

That’s when memory gets creative.
That’s when loneliness puts on perfume and borrows your phone.
That’s when men who couldn’t plan a proper date suddenly feel emotionally significant.

At 11:47 PM, red flags start looking like personality traits.

You’re not missing him.
You’re missing the version of him that existed in low lighting, good chemistry, and zero
expectations.

And listen — that’s human.
But it’s not a good enough reason.

Real interest doesn’t wait for you to be tired and alone.
It shows up during the day,
when your life is full and effort is required.

If someone only crosses your mind when you’re winding down, you’re not craving them.
You’re craving someone to hold you after a long day, rub your feet while you exhale, and listen
when your boss spent eight hours breathing down your neck.

And comfort is not the same thing as compatibility.
It’s not even the same thing as attraction.
It’s emotional convenience filling the gap.

This is the part where you straighten your spine, stop negotiating with loneliness, and
remember who you are.

You don’t need a man who circles late at night offering vibes and nostalgia.
You don’t need a “hey sexy friend.”
You don’t need access dressed up as intimacy.

That’s broke mentality — and not the financial kind.
It’s scarcity disguised as desire.

You deserve interest that shows up awake, intentional, and on purpose.
Not access offered after hours, once everything else has closed.

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